A few weeks ago, our laundry room flooded. The floor needed to be ripped out, and well, it
is a process.
So, I began taking our laundry to the laundry mat once or
twice a week.
At first, I was irritated with the loading and unloading of
the baskets. It seems that any time I
needed to take the multiple loads of laundry to be cleaned, a child would
undoubtedly need their bedding washed as well.
And the amount of laundry continued to multiply.
The good news is, doing all the laundry at the same time gets
it all done in one swoop. But it still
takes time.
And then, I began to enjoy that time. Those hours were inviting.
I found myself alone in the laundry mat waiting for the
clothes to finish washing so I could transfer them. This is when I found time to read, catch up
on emails, or just sit in the quiet.
While waiting for the clothes to finish one cycle and move
on to the next, I found myself in the in between. Not just the in between of the washer and the
dryer, but the in between of life.
This week I received a call regarding my daughter’s upcoming
MRI. My instinct told me that the MRI
was scheduled rather quickly. We were
only told a week ago she would need this MRI for something that did not appear
very worrisome. I followed that
instinct, and I called the doctor’s office that requested the tesI to see just what
they were hoping to find or, rather, rule out.
An orbital tumor
My three-year-old.
My precious baby girl.
Our official “we are doing with babies” baby.
She has medical disabilities already, and this fiery
daughter of mine has overcome so many obstacles in her short life:
She was born very early at 23 weeks.
She has a trach that she depends on to breathe (although we
are hoping to lose that accessory soon).
She has a feeding tube for nutrition as we are still working
on eating.
She has Adrenal Insufficiency that requires daily steroids
just so her tiny body can keep up.
She has been in the hospital more times than I can count.
So now, we must worry about a tumor?
It does not seem fair.
Although, life rarely is.
The MRI is scheduled for next week.
This week, I find myself in the in between- the time between
transferring my worry from one cycle to the next.
It is during times like this that I find it difficult to
move, to concentrate, to focus on anything but the big bad thing looming
overhead.
So I transfer the laundry.
As I stood quietly against the tables in the quiet laundry mat
that are meant for folding, listening to the whirring of the machines and lost in
my own thoughts, I realized that this is where my faith is tested.
The in between.
Do I worry? Or do I
welcome the unknown and allow God to take me into His arms for rest?
Do I google? Go down the rabbit hole of all things orbital
tumor and drive myself to the brink of shutdown? Or do I simply give my worries over to Him
and know that He is faithful?
When things are good or bad, it is easy to cast all our
cares. We are well versed in praising
God for the good things and praying to God during the bad.
But the in between
It is possible to live dreading a dangerous storm even while
the sun is shining. It is possible to plan for the worst while
praying desperately for the best.
The in between, where fear and love co-exist
Where anxiety and peace share their story
This is where I will live for now.
When I do not know if the outcome will be great or grave, it
is difficult for me to know what to do.
So, I simply
pray. I pray for the next step.
I stand in the in between waiting to transfer the clothes
and my worries.
And I fold the laundry.